As parents, we've survived toddler tantrums, teenage mood swings and everything in between. Being a parent is so simple when your child is in a good mood and behaving well. You talk nicely to him. He talks nicely to you. It's easy. But catch even a cooperative child on a grumpy day, and it's another story.

Mums to be up and down the country are embracing what is arguably the best US import to hit the UK if you're pregnant, the baby shower. Shloer, the sparkling juice drink, has surveyed women from all over the UK to identify the top dos and don'ts for the perfect baby shower so you can celebrate an imminent arrival in style.